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Couples & Sex Therapist | Imago Relationship Therapist

Oxana Holtmann is a couples and sex therapist who views intimate relationships as powerful opportunities for self-discovery, healing, and personal growth.

Drawing on Imago Relationship Therapy, Jungian psychology, psychodynamic thinking, and somatic practices, she helps couples explore the unconscious patterns, emotional wounds, and unspoken expectations that shape their everyday interactions.

Oxana believes that conflicts over household responsibilities often reveal deeper relational dynamics involving recognition, control, fairness, and the longing to feel valued. Rather than seeing these challenges simply as problems to solve, she invites couples to approach them with curiosity and compassion.

Through the Fair Play Method, Oxana helps partners transform invisible labor and recurring frustrations into opportunities for greater awareness, mutual respect, and collaboration. Her work is grounded in the belief that a thriving relationship supports both emotional intimacy and individuation—the unfolding of each partner's authentic self.

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