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Your go-to destination for valuable support and information.

Here, you’ll find a range of Fair Play specific resources designed to help you navigate your Fair Play journey, along with connections to outside organizations, resources, and communities that are also focused on the care movement.

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Fair Play Resources

Fair Play Cards

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All 100 cards of Fair Play with CPE Checklist

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For anyone who has ever thought, “I have no time for myself” or “This isn’t the career and marriage combo deal I thought I’d have” –Eve Rodsky has been there.

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How to invite your partner to watch the Fair Play Documentary & Conversation Starters.

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Burnout or breakup are constant dangers when one partner carries too much of the mental load of looking after the home and family. Here’s how to spread the burden more evenly.

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It's the most wonderful time of the year… and somehow also the busiest! In addition to everything already on our plates, the holidays pile on an extra layer of shopping, wrapping, decorating, mailing, cooking, hosting, and staying on top of all the little details that keep the holiday magic alive.

That's why we created the Fair Play Holiday Guide in collaboration with Jam Family Calendar – to help take the pressure off, share the load more fairly, and make space for the good stuff: joy, connection, and maybe even the rest we all need.

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In the Fair Play deck, Birth Control/Family Planning is its own standalone card, and for good reason. This is often one of the most emotionally and logistically complex aspects of life planning, and it should never default to the birthing partner. Download this conversation starter to get insight into how to CPE the Family Planning card. *This guide focuses primarily on the conception and fertility-planning phase of growing your family.

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If you’ve been struggling to figure out what childcare or household support actually makes sense for your family—or you’re entering a new season like welcoming a new baby, navigating a return to work, or balancing kids and aging parents—you’re not alone. This guide includes a breakdown of every major childcare option—from daycare and au pairs to nannies, family assistants, backup care, and more.

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This guide is here to help lighten the emotional and invisible load of grief, whether you’re grieving yourself or supporting someone who is.

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Fair Play is a movement that values what we call EDE—Explicitly Defined Expectations. As we have watched countless individuals go through a wild card like divorce without protections in place for the unpaid labor they have performed in their home, the Fair Play Policy Institute believes that every partnership would be well served by establishing a partnership agreement. Let’s get one misconception
out of the way: having a prenup or a post-nup doesn’t mean you are planning for divorce. It means you value a relationship where both partners feel valued and financially rewarded for contributing to their family’s success. These contracts are simply insurance against a messy, costly, lengthy divorce.

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Complementing the decades of work by family and consumer sciences experts to cultivate strong families and communities, we are excited to offer our fresh take on home education – Home Eq[uity]. A modern take on home economics, this Home Eq[uity] curriculum is designed to teach the next generation the skills they need to close the chore gap at home.

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Planning a celebration of any sort can be very exciting and also overwhelming, especially when it comes to weddings, celebrations of love, or what our friends at Modern Rebel like to call Love Parties. That’s why we’ve partnered with Modern Rebel to create the Fair Play Celebration Guide! This guide is for anyone planning a celebration of love, but many of the tips offered can be applied to celebrations of all types.

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Welcoming a child into the home can be exciting, scary, overwhelming, and fun - all at the same time. That’s why it has its own WILD card in the Fair Play deck. We want to support you every step of the way, from prepping for the actual journey of bringing a child home (whether that’s through childbirth, fostering, or adoption) to dividing the household tasks once they’ve arrived and beyond!

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From the New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play comes an inspirational guide for setting new personal goals, rediscovering your interests, cultivating creativity, and reclaiming your Unicorn Space.

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Based on the Reese’s Book Club Pick and New York Times best-seller Fair Play, this couple’s conversation deck will help you rebalance your to-do lists, reclaim your time, and rediscover and nurture the skills and interests that make you uniquely you.

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With her acclaimed New York Times bestseller (and Reese’s Book Club pick) Fair Play, Eve Rodsky began a national conversation about greater equality on the home front. But she soon realized that even when the domestic workload becomes more balanced, people still report something missing in their lives—that is, unless they create and prioritize time for activities that not only fill their calendars but also unleash their creativity.

Check out Fair Play Book

Communities & Organizations

We accelerate self-care, and growth for moms with research, proven rituals, memberships and employer programs that strengthen caregiver infrastructure.

Visit Mom's Hierarchy of Needs

A compassionate, practical resource for leaders navigating grief in the workplace. Created by Jason MacKenzie of the AiMS Institute, this guide helps you know what to say, what to do, and how to lead with empathy and steadiness during one of the hardest seasons a team member may face.

Visit Leading Through Loss

Founded by grief therapist Claire Bidwell Smith, this network of grief professionals offers compassionate support and resources for those navigating loss. Through community, guided practices, and education, it helps people process grief in an intentional and healing way.

Visit the Conscious Grieving Network
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To help guide you through estate administration and the account changes that must be taken care of after death.

Visit LooseEnds

Visualizing care connections across the U.S. economy

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The Sandwich Club is the go-to club for the go-to family member—a trusted place to find answers to your caregiving questions big and small. Get instant responses to every question, advice from fellow caregivers, and expert guides and resources to help you make decisions with confidence.

Visit The Sandwich Club

The ultimate parent-to-parent, crowd-sourced collection of favorite books, podcasts, tip sheets, websites, community groups, mental health resources, and more!

Open Spreadsheet
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Famtech.org strengthens the care economy by supporting companies at every stage of development, connecting innovators, investors and partners across the eco-system and fostering the collaboration that fuels growth.

Visit FamTech.org
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WRK/360 provides coaching and training programs to support your organizations working parents and caregivers. WRK/360's programs are designed for employees and their managers navigating the intersection of care and career from new parenthood through eldercare. WRK/360's three core programs include: Parental Leave at WRK, coaching and training for employees and their managers as they plan for leave and return to work. Parents & Caregivers at WRK, coaching, community, and resources for employees navigating their ongoing care journey while growing their career. Fair Play at WRK, a 3-month cohort program to tackle burnout, reduce the mental load, manage invisible work and improve equity at home and at work.

Visit WRK/360
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Join the movement to fight for the structural changes moms need and deserve: affordable child care, paid family leave, and equal pay for moms.

Visit Moms First
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Join the mothers speaking up and driving change on the state and local levels, as well as bringing our stories straight to D.C. Chamber of Mothers is a nonpartisan 501(c)(3) uniting mothers as advocates to create a better America.

Visit Chamber of Mothers
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Caregiving isn't just a personal issue; it's the silent engine of our economies and the soft fabric of our societies. Yet, the gap between what is and what could be remains vast. "The Care Gap" is dedicated to closing that divide, bringing you the raw, unfiltered data that underpins our work-life balance, and offering clear, actionable insights that catalyze transformation in homes, workplaces, and policy circles.

Visit The Care Gap

The Company of Dads is an inclusive community for Lead Dads.

Visit The Company of Dads
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Helping create a world where all men and boys are loving and respectful and all women, girls, and those at the margins of the margins are valued and safe.

Visit A Call to Men
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Modern Husbands is where men turn for ideas to manage money and the home as a team: articles, podcast, courses, and more.

Visit Modern Husbands

A movement of caregivers and care recipients working to better care systems so everyone can live, work, age, and parent with dignity.

Visit Caring Across Generations
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Paid Family Leave isn't a nice to have; it's your right. Whether it's bonding with a child, caring for a family member, or taking care of yourself during a serious illness, you're entitled to support that goes beyond what your employer might offer.

Visit Paidleave.ai
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ThirdPath is a national nonprofit that assists individuals, families and leaders in finding new ways to redesign work and life to create time for family, community and other life priorities. We are developing a growing community of role models and change agents to influence wider change—both within organizations and families. We support a new mind-set where everyone can follow a "third path"—an integrated approach to work and life.

Visit ThirdPath

Tech & Research

Visualizing care connections across the U.S. economy

Learn More about The Care Board

Agenda Hero is your Magic Wand for creating calendar events with AI. Convert text, photos, flyers, emails, and PDFs into calendar-ready events, like a magician.

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