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Marriage & Romance
Definition
#herofail is what one mom called it when her husband scheduled a series of surprise romantic dinners on Thursday nights, not realizing that’s when she holds the “transportation (kids)” card for their daughter’s play rehearsals. Her husband’s heart was in the right place, but this card (like all of ’em) takes Conception, Planning, and Execution—emphasis needed on the Planning in his case. This cardholder might be the one who, for example, initiates a regular date night (on a night that works!). Planning for kid-free time can feel like a logistical nightmare (scheduling a sitter, coordinating calendars, and agreeing on details), but cardholders who pull it off report it’s well worth it.
Conception
You have a partnership
Planning
- Conceiving of thoughtful gestures for your spouse (gifts, cooking a meal, a note, flowers)
- Ensuring that time is set aside for just the two of you on a regular basis
- Scheduling date nights, including making dinner reservations, show tickets etc.
- Scheduling couple-only trips with “Travel” cardholder
- Planning time for intimacy
Execution
- Executing consistent opportunities for family fun
Minimum Standard of Care
Is there a reasonable effort made to maintain you and your partner’s connection?